- Breath deeply and take it all in
- Remember you only need a few things to pull off a wedding: Bride, Groom, Officiant & Marriage License, everything else is extra
- In the midst of wedding day preparation, make sure you take time for marriage preparation (a Wedding is one day, a Marriage is a lifetime)
- Pray- God cares about you and your wedding day
- Keep your priorities straight
- Remember that sometimes a little extra money can mean a LOT LESS HEADACHE
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Overwhelmed Yet?
It's January of 2011 and all you spring and summer brides are busy. I just want to remind you of a few things during this season of your life.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
a tip for new couples . . .
This time of year tends to bring about the best in people and the worst in people. It's a busy time and it's easy to get "caught up" in all the festivities and ignore the feelings of your spouse or set them aside as less important.
Let me explain what I'm getting at. Most families have Christmas traditions that they love and want to keep from generation to generation. Although this is a good thing it can also cause a lot of tension for young couples who are trying to decide how to make it all work together. I know of several couples who are so tired after the holidays because they had to go to each set of parents and a few grandparents' homes all within 2 days.
I'm not a marriage counselor, but I do know that holidays should not cause fights and that their are practical ways to avoid tension during this time of year.
My husband and I decided that we would not go to any one's home on Christmas day. We are our own family and we wanted to start our own family Christmas traditions. We made this clear to both of our families from the beginning. Because we made this decision together and informed our families it has never been a problem. I know this is not the solution for everyone, but I do think it's important that young couples understand that as a married couple you are a family and you must make decisions that are best for you.
I have several friends who alternate holidays with their families. One year they go to one family for Thanksgiving and the other for Christmas and then the opposite the next year. This allows you both the spend time each year with your family.
Any solution that you come up with is going to be a compromise. You can't be in two places at once and you shouldn't try. Be upfront with your families and let them know that as much as you love Christmas/Thanksgiving the way we have always done it, you and your spouse must make decisions on what is best for your family.
Above all, enjoy this special time of year!
Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Let me explain what I'm getting at. Most families have Christmas traditions that they love and want to keep from generation to generation. Although this is a good thing it can also cause a lot of tension for young couples who are trying to decide how to make it all work together. I know of several couples who are so tired after the holidays because they had to go to each set of parents and a few grandparents' homes all within 2 days.
I'm not a marriage counselor, but I do know that holidays should not cause fights and that their are practical ways to avoid tension during this time of year.
My husband and I decided that we would not go to any one's home on Christmas day. We are our own family and we wanted to start our own family Christmas traditions. We made this clear to both of our families from the beginning. Because we made this decision together and informed our families it has never been a problem. I know this is not the solution for everyone, but I do think it's important that young couples understand that as a married couple you are a family and you must make decisions that are best for you.
I have several friends who alternate holidays with their families. One year they go to one family for Thanksgiving and the other for Christmas and then the opposite the next year. This allows you both the spend time each year with your family.
Any solution that you come up with is going to be a compromise. You can't be in two places at once and you shouldn't try. Be upfront with your families and let them know that as much as you love Christmas/Thanksgiving the way we have always done it, you and your spouse must make decisions on what is best for your family.
Above all, enjoy this special time of year!
Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Monday, August 2, 2010
Simplicity & Money Savers
Simple touches will add elegance to your wedding day without adding too much to the bottom line.
On July 31st, Jamie and Grafton were married. They had a simple reception that was very cost efficient yet elegant because they chose to highlight a few parts with some very nice touches.
Consider renting demitasse cups for a coffee bar instead of using large coffee cups or plastic. You can still use the cheaper plastic service for the food and other drinks. You could also rent china plates and real silverware for the cakes only. Again, this will add a unique touch, but it's not something you have to carry out through the entire event.
Re-use your flowers. The bridal party bouquets are some of the most beautiful flowers of the entire wedding. Set out empty vases at the reception and use the bridal party bouquets as part of the decor. Another money-saver is to use the rehearsal dinner flowers at the reception (As long as both families are willing). You can use the exact arrangement or re-do the flowers for a new look.
Jamie and Grafton re-used all the flowers from the rehearsal dinner at their reception by reworking the arrangement. No one ever knew.
Congratulations to Jamie and Grafton, it was a wonderful wedding!
On July 31st, Jamie and Grafton were married. They had a simple reception that was very cost efficient yet elegant because they chose to highlight a few parts with some very nice touches.
Consider renting demitasse cups for a coffee bar instead of using large coffee cups or plastic. You can still use the cheaper plastic service for the food and other drinks. You could also rent china plates and real silverware for the cakes only. Again, this will add a unique touch, but it's not something you have to carry out through the entire event.
Re-use your flowers. The bridal party bouquets are some of the most beautiful flowers of the entire wedding. Set out empty vases at the reception and use the bridal party bouquets as part of the decor. Another money-saver is to use the rehearsal dinner flowers at the reception (As long as both families are willing). You can use the exact arrangement or re-do the flowers for a new look.
Jamie and Grafton re-used all the flowers from the rehearsal dinner at their reception by reworking the arrangement. No one ever knew.
Congratulations to Jamie and Grafton, it was a wonderful wedding!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Vendors . . .
I have just updated my vendor list with several people/businesses that I have had the privilege to work with this year. It is important that you are comfortable with your vendor so don't stop looking after just one meeting. Check out a few different photographers, florist, bakers etc. before you choose.
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